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| − | A couple of nights ago I was invited to attend a gathering but the problem was I didn't know the party hosts, and to be honest, I really didn't feel like attending.
| + | Last week I was asked to attend a party but I did not know the party hosts very well and to put it simply, I really didn't feel like attending. |
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| − | The truth is I’ve been invited to parties just like this one, in the past, where I know basically no one at all, but at my wife’s insistence, I always end up going.
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| − | Why didn’t I want to go?
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| − | I had, in my mind, created a false sense of fear of attending…which was not at all based in reality.
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| − | Whenever I thought about the party I pictured myself standing there to the side of the room, earnestly trying to find something to talk about with someone - of course no matter how hard I tried, I struggled to make a connection. I always had a hard time finding common ground with other people, the convos were always awkward, add in some obnoxious music and I always had a bad time.
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| − | This was how I had pictured myself at this party.
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| − | Have you ever had a party experience similar to mine?
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| − | I'm talking about the kind of parties you go to where you think to yourself you’d actually rather be getting a tooth removed at the dentist office than suffering through this agonizing torture….
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| − | But what if I had tried to simply picture and expect a different and better outcome?
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| − | Instead of sitting there, alone and miserable…imagine if I had pictured being surrounded by people very engaged and extremely interested in me and what I had to say, fully engaging in conversation, while enjoyable music played in the background, feeling wonderful, relaxed and 100% at ease?
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| − | How about if I had expected an experience more in tune with the above mentioned party, do you think, just maybe, that I would have been more open to attending the party?
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| − | The #1 Factor for House Flipping Success
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| − | Envision for just a moment, that you are able to change this kind of perception not only when you are faced with a decision to go to a party…but when you are about to make your first house flipping deal?
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| − | Let’s say you have worked hard in an effort to start your house flipping career you find the perfect house flipping opportunity. All signs are saying move forward, they're all telling you to go for it. Finally you have uncovered a good price, you have good financing, you have a handle on expected costs and you know for sure how much you can get for the final home.
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| − | Yet you imagine the deal crumbling beneath you, the home just sitting there with no interest from buyers, as you sit there, helpless, watching your profit deteriorate…
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| − | What are the chances that you are you going to do this house flip?
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| − | There is really no chance of success if you hold that type of mental belief.
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| − | Instead picture the house selling for thousands more than your worst case price, in less than 30 days, giving you and your backers a full return on their investment.
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| − | To be successful you must adopt this sort of mindset.
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| − | What this is not is just a wild assumption that everything will go right only because you think it ought to...that is not true at all. You really need an awesome strategy and gameplan of steps that lessens the chance of a poor deal - so you can place yourself in a position to recieve the value and wonderful feelings instead of focusing on the pain .
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| − | First and foremost to achieve this positive mindset, once you have done all that you need to then expect success in your thoughts and focus on all that you have to gain from the deal.
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| − | This is the house flipping mindset and this is how you will be most successful.
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Last week I was asked to attend a party but I did not know the party hosts very well and to put it simply, I really didn't feel like attending.
