Flipping Properties and Partying with New People

A couple of nights ago I was invited to attend a gathering but I did not know the party hosts very well and to put it simply, I really just did not want to go at all.

The fact of the matter is that I have been asked to go to gatherings just like this in the past where I know basically no one at all, but at my girl friend's insistence, of course I did eventually go.

Why didn’t I want to go?

I had, in my mind, created a false sense of fear of attending…without any sort of basis within reality.

I had pictured myself alone and awkward at the party, standing there in the corner of the room, desperately trying to find something to talk about with the people who were there - and of course no matter how desperately hard I tried, I consistently struggled to connect with people. I never was able to find something that I could talk to other people easily about, the conversations always seemed so awkward, add in some super loud music and I always managed to have a downright miserable time.

As sad as it sounds, that is how I always envisioned my party experiences.

Have you ever had a party experience similar to mine?

These are the kinds of gatherings you go to where you think to yourself you’d actually rather be at the dentist than suffering through this utter social torture….

What if I had instead expected a much better and more enjoyable outcome?

So instead of being a loner, talking to no one in the corner…imagine if I had been encircled by incredible, awe inspiring people that were truly interested in what I had to say and contribute, taking part in great conversation, while enjoyable music played in the background, feeling completely comfortable and at ease?

What if I had chosen to envision the above scenario, do you think I may have had an easier time attending the party, and possibly even wanted to attend the gathering?

The #1 Factor for House Flipping Success

Envision for just a moment, that you are able to change this sort of perception not just with regards to parties…but also when you go into your first house flipping deal?

Imagine that you have worked very hard for over a year to start your house flipping career you find the perfect house flipping opportunity. Every sign is yelling yes. The price is absolutely right, you have financing, you have a handle on expected costs and you are 90% sure of the price you will get when you finally sell the property.

But you imagine everything going wrong, the house sitting on the market for months, every month your margins and profits slowly dwindle away…

What are the chances that you are you going to do this house flip?

Not unless you change the PERCEPTION of pain versus pleasure.

Instead picture the house selling for thousands more than your worst case price, in less than two weeks, giving you and your backers a full return on their investment.

This is the sort of mindset you must adopt-the house flipping mindset.

This is not a wild theory that things will go well just because you PERCEIVE it will...no my friend, that is not the case at all. You really need an awesome strategy and gameplan of steps that lessens the chance of the bad deal - so you can place yourself in a position to recieve the value and pleasure in reaping profits instead of focusing on the pain .

And even more importantly to achieve this type of house flipping mindset, and once you have mentally prepared be sure to then create a picture of success in your mind and think only of all the good things to come from the deal.

This is the house flipping mindset and the first step to making any success real estate investing, or house flipping career.

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